Anyway, then I lost the file on my computer and couldn't find it again. I tried to go to the blog where I had downloaded it from, and that blog no longer exists. So thanks to Pinterest, I found it again!! I saw a pic of it then clicked through to the blog, and at last here it is!
The chart is completely customizable. Which is nice, because each kid needs a little bit of a different list of ways to help out; and for each year or season of life these chores will change. The last chore listed on each kids chart I have "Blessing Bonus". I use this in 2 different ways. First, if I have the kids do an extra big job that isn't on their chart, they get to mark of "Blessing Bonus." But the second reason I have this (and the greater reason) is that I want them to be on the lookout for ways they can bless others. For instance, if H were to put away laundry for his sister or brother without being asked, he will get a blessing bonus.
We have a long way to go... but I really want my kids to learn to be on the lookout for how they can bless other. How they can use the hands God has given them to serve, care for and even clean up after other. I feel like this is an area where I have so much room to grow in too. Maybe I need to make myself a chart (to make sure I am getting all my chores done) and to remind myself daily to be on the lookout for ways to bless others!
"the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."Matthew 20:28